It’s funny how things seem to tie together unexpectedly. I was perusing the internets when I came across this:
Top Five Regrets of the Dying1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
(Click on the above link to get the complete story and how it relates.)
This is EXACTLY what I was intimating
in my earlier post. This is what I meant (but couldn’t articulate as well) and am now endeavoring to do. This brings the levity and peace.
This reminds of the following:
The Paradox Of Our AgeWe have bigger houses but smaller families;
more conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees but less sense;
more knowledge but less judgment;
more experts, but more problems;
more medicines but less healthiness.
We’ve been all the way to the moon and back,
but have trouble in crossing the street to meet our new neighbour.
We built more computers to hold more copies than ever,
But have less real communication;
We have become long on quantity,
but short on quality.
These are times of fast foods but slow digestion;
Tall men but short characters;
Steep profits but shallow relationships.
It’s a time when there is much in the window
But nothing in the room.
— the 14th Dalai Lama.
You’ve probably read that before. I know I had. I’d not really thought on it until recently. Believe what you with regards to The Dalai Lama. I find his insight into life very enlightening. And, as I leave the lost and found theme, there’s one more Dalai Lama quote you might want to contemplate:
The Dalai Lama was asked what surprised him most, he said "Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived."
Ride On.